Archive for October, 2005

traits..

Monday, October 17th, 2005

Analysis on birth-dates:

If you were born on the :

1st, 10th, 19th, 28th of any month you are number 1.

2nd, 11th, 20th, 29th of any month then you are number 2.

3rd, 12th, 21st, 30th of any month then you are number 3.

4th, 13th, 22nd, 31st of any month then you are Number 4.

5th, 14th, 23rd of any month then you are number 5.

6th, 15th, 24th of any month then you are number 6.

7th, 16th, 25th of any month then you are number 7.

8th, 17th, 26th of any month then you are number 8.

9th, 18th, 27th of any month then you are number 9.

Number 1 You are smart, a straight talker, funny, stubborn, hardworking, honest, jealous on a competitive basis, kind hearted, temperamental, friendly, and popular. You always want to be on the top and most likely to be independent. You are most likely to fall in love at a young age, but will marry once you mature! You are likely to have problems with people who have opposite views and you are most likely to take revenge over your enemies in a long time basis. You are a spender, but you will have a good profession in the future. If you are guy you will be very popular. You can go anywhere from the local shop to the heart of the parliament because you are positive and talented in numerous areas. But in your life you will always have some people who will work hard to bring you & your name down. Because of your intelligence, some might hate you. You are a pioneer, independent & original your best match is 4,6,8 while a good match would be with 3,5,7

Number 2 No matter what, every one will love you because you are ruled by the Moon. You day dream a lot, you have a very low-self esteem, you need to have a back up for every move in your life, you are very unpredictable. You tend to change according to time and circumstances, selfish, have a very strong sense of musical and artistic talent and powerful verbal communication. You can be sweet as an angel and can be ruthless when double-crossed. Some might say you have a sixth sense. You will become a poet, writer, an artist or a businessperson. You are not strong in love, so your relationship will be in disarray until you settle down. If you are a girl, you will be responsible for your family. If you are a man, you tend to get involve in fights & arguments in the family. You will sacrifice your life for your family. You are gentle, intuitive with a broad vision. You make a well-balanced person. Your best match is 2, 7,5, and 9 no other people can put up with you!!!

Number 3 You are hardhearted and selfish most of the time. You always tend to have lots of problems within your family in the early stages but you will be able to cope with everything. You seem to have your way in everything. And from birth you would always have to work hard to achieve anything you want. You always make a point to set examples on others, especially the younger ones. Generally you are not a cool person. It’s not easy dealing with you. A tough player you are! But once you are comfortable with someone, it will be a lasting friendship. You always earn respect from others. Your Ilk seems to have lots of worries and problems but they won’t be for long. You will have brilliant kids! You love money a bit too much so temptation will push you to try endlessly. You will look after your family and help friends, so you will spend a life time just being generous and kind (except for men born on the 21st). You love your freedom, creative and ambitious, a person who brings beauty, hope & joy to this world!!! Your best match 6 and 9. Good match 1, 3, and 5

Number 4 You are very stubborn, very hard working but unlucky in important matters in life, very cool and helpful. You might repel people away from you, you may cause nuisance to others if you are a man, as you gifted are with understanding other people’s problems. If you are a girl, you excel in your studies and arts. If you are a guy you spend most of your time with girl friends and you tend to have too much fun with your mates & girls. Your friends will spend your time & money and get on with their life and you will be left empty handed. So be careful! You love to spend. Your positive side is that you are always around to help family and friends. You always fall in love with those younger than you. You often live with disappointments but you will take good care of your family. You need to be careful of people who will take advantage of your kind heart. And beware of your relationships too. You are radical, patient, persistent, and a bit old-fashioned; you live with foundation & order. Your best match 1, 8. Good match 5, 6, and 7

Number 5 You are very popular and you can get things done only by talking. Even to your enemies! You are business-minded and like to do things spontaneously. You will be famous if you get involved in any business. Your friends and families will always ask for your help, and you are the one actually with the money to help your friends. You will have more than one relationship, but when you settle down you tend to be selfish. You tend to go for other relationships - even if you are married at times because of your popularity. You tend to get along easily with anyone because the numbers is a middle number. You love freedom and changes. You learn your life through your personal experiences. Your best match 1, 2, Good match 6, 8.

Number 6 Ooopppss.. you were born to enjoy! You don’t care about others. I mean you always wanted to have a lifetime of enjoyment. You will excel in either education or business management! You are talented, kind (but with only people who you think are nice), and popular. All good things come easily to you. Your mind and body is just made perfect for love. You are loveable by any number. But if you are a number 6 men, you will be involved in more than a few relationships until you get married. If you are a girl, most of you will get married/engaged early. You are a caring person towards your family and friends. You are a person of compassion, comfort & fairness, domestic responsibility, good judgment, and after all you can heal this world’s wounds to make peace for everyone because you have the great power and caring talent to take the world of love one step further.. Your best match 7, 6, and 9. Good match 4, 5

Number 7 You are realistic, confident, happy, and talented in education, music, art, singing, and most importantly in acting. You also have a bad temper! You value your family status a lot; you will be in the top rank when you reach a certain age. If you are a guy you are popular with girls. Most of the number 7s face lots of problems with their married life. Only a few are happy. You have everything in your life but with worries throughout your lifetime. You need to get ready looking for a partner rather than waiting. If you don’t, then you might end-up being single. You are born to contribute to everyone’s joy. Your best match is 2. Good matches are 1,4

Number 8 You have a very strong personality and people will find it hard to understand you. You are more likely to suffer in your younger years. You might be also the one responsible to look out for your family. You often suffer all the way through life. You will learn life in a very practical way. You are the one who will fight for justice and may even die in the war too. You are normally very reserved with a handful of friends and most of the time, live life alone and always prepared to help others. However, once you settle down, (which is often late), then your had lucks will disappear. You will face unexpected problems such as encountering poisonous animals, and accidents. You are highly- disciplined, persistence, and courageous, and it is your strength that will take you to success. You are a great part of a family team. You are a fighter! Your Best match 1. 4, and 8. Good match 5

Number 9 

You guys are the most incompatible people in the world. You are so strong, physically and mentally. You often have big-aims. You will work hard and will think it’s still hard to get there, even if you already have gotten there! Normally you suffer in the early age from family problems and generally you will have to fight in life. You are respected by others. You were however very naughty in your childhood, and often got beaten up by your parents and had been involved in fights and you seemed to have suffered lots of injuries. But when you grow older you become calm and will fall into the quiet and dignified macho type. Love is not an easy matter for you. You are however good in engineering or banking jobs because people always trust you. Your family life is very good, but you will always worry over your children. Your finer qualities are that you are humanitarian, patient, very wise & compassionate. You are born to achieve targets and serve every one equally without any prejudice. You are a role model for everyone. Your best match 3, 5,6, and 9. Good match 2

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holding on or letting go..

Thursday, October 6th, 2005

To LoVe…

Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing
someone she loves
so much will still wish against all odds to have that
love back
again. But, sometimes a love lost is a love gone
forever. No amount
of hope can bring to life a relationship that just
died a natural
death. Set yourself free. Let your heart spread its
wings and fly.
Remember, it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights,
but
still will not
rain forever. One day the pouring will stop and there
will be plenty
of branches where you can find rest. One of these
is
where you will
build your nest and start over again. It’s never too
late. Remember,
you may find love and lose it but, "WHEN LOVE
DIES,
YOU NEVER HAVE TO
DIE WITH IT".

Remember that you cannot be a redeemer all your
life.
The best
way to weigh a relationship is out in the test of
fire. You cannot be
a sooner of your mistake forever. Remember, we all
fail and make
wrong decisions but our blunders are meant not to
bury
us deep in
misery but to teach us the valued lessons of life.
Loving is always a
learning process.

With love, we learn how to care and sacrifice. We
learn to share
and reach out. We learn to be unselfish and give
more
than we can.
And when everything doesn’t end well, we learn
how it
feels to fall, we
strive to get back on our feet and move on. This is
where we learn
that "Life doesn’t end where our heartaches begin".

THERE IS NO FUTURE IN A RELATIONSHIP OF
LIES AND
SELFISHNESS.
It’s true, there’s life in love. But, there can still
be life even
after losing love if you leave the past behind and let
your heart
heal and give you the chance to find yourself again.
The success of a
relationship lies not only in the beauty of its
beginning but in its
consistency. Make a choice not on impulse but a
decision based on a
healthy balance of mind and heart. Let us always
remember
that "HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF
DESTINY BUT A
MATTER OF CHOICE".

There comes a time in our lives when we chance
upon
someone so
nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting
so intensely
attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes
part of our
everyday lives and eventually consumes our
thoughts
and actions. The
sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this
person feels
nothing more for us than friendship. We start our
desperate attempt
to get noticed and be closer but in the end our
efforts are still
unrewarded and we end up being sorry for
ourselves.

"YOU DON’T HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE
YOU LOVE. WHAT YOU
NEED TO
LEARN IS HOW TO ACCEPT THE VERDICT OF
REALITY WITHOUT
BEING BITTER OR
SORRY FOR YOURSELF. YOU WOULD BETTER
OFF GIVING THAT
DEDICATION
AND LOVE TO SOMEONE MORE DESERVING".
Don’t let your
heart run your
life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself.
Listen not only
to your feelings but to reason as well. Always
remember that if you
lose someone today, it means that someone
better is
coming tomorrow.

"IF YOU LOSE LOVE, THAT DOESN’T MEAN
THAT YOU HAVE
FAILED IN
LOVE. CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE
THAT TEAR
WASHES AWAY THE
HURT AND THE BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST
LEFT YOU WITH.
LET GO OF
YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS WAY
BACK TO YOU". And
when it does, pray that it may be the love that will
stay and last a lifetime.

A woman on the rebound could easily fall for
sweeping
emotions
and be made to falsely believe that she finally
stumbled upon the
right man when what she just found is only
someone to
cover up for
the love she lost. A man who makes promises with
words
and not with
actions may never live up to fulfill them. "IT’S TRUE
THAT LOVE CAN
WAIT FOREVER BUT IT IS CRAZY TO
STUBBORNLY HOPE FOR
SOMEONE WHO
DOESN’T EVEN CARE OR UNDERSTAND HOW
WE FEEL".

Loving someone is never a sin. It is what people do
out of love
that sometimes makes it all wrong. The selfish
desire
to want that
person is what makes it a sin. Don’t think only of
your feelings for
real love doesn’t have a place for selfish people.
When there is
love, there is always sacrifice.

When we love someone, we NEVER easily GIVE
UP on that
person.
Even if we get hurt badly we always try to find a
way
to ease the
pain and learn to understand and forgive. Loving too
much doesn’t
hurt. It is when we expect this love to be
reciprocated that we begin
to seek approval and acceptance of the things we
have
done and when
we are taken for granted and rejected, we curse the
very same love
that we once freely and happily offered.

"DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING FOR
SOMEONE WHO NEVER
REALLY CARED
ABOUT HOW YOU WOULD HAVE FELT. OPEN
YOUR HEART AGAIN
AND GIVE
YOURSELF THE CHANCE TO FIND THE MAN
WHO WOULD MAKE
LOVING WORTH THE
PAIN AND THE SACRIFICE. Just like anything
else, our
love grows weak
and extent. Beyond that, it withers without any
hope
of recovery and
soon dies".

God wakes us up in the midst of a storm to teach
us a
lesson. He
takes away people we love, so we can learn to
value
love itself. He
makes us cry so hard so we can see clearly when
we
open our eyes. He
makes us bitter so we can realize that there is no
genuine happiness
if we think only of our needs and not of others.

Relationships built on jealousy and selfishness is
doomed from
the very beginning. The hardest part of losing love is
letting go and
moving on. Most of us cry endlessly over things
that
could have been
but never will be.

"God allows us to experience pain to make us
stronger
and better
persons. He will see us through the most trying and
difficult times
in our lives and only if we put our trust in Him we
can learn to find
joy in our tears and happiness in our sorrows".

In many failed relationships, separation comes as
the
inevitable
choice but moving on always proves to be twice as
difficult as
letting go. Sometimes, the end of a relationship is
imposed on us,
but our choice to hold on is always beyond the
control
of
circumstances.

Letting go is a decision that can never be dictated
on
us. It is
a resolve we make ourselves. Acceptance is the
key to
a new beginning
and time is the healer of all wounds. Even if the
storm casts its
fearful shadow, there will always be light after our
darkness and
lonely moments. There is always a hope for those
who
believe. There
is always a chance for those who try. "Losing
someone
we love may not be a loss at all but a blessing
because someone even more is yet to
come".

There is nothing wrong in expressing our feelings to
someone we
love, but "we must always be sensitive to the
signals
that tell us
when to rationalize and be sensible." There comes
a
time in our lives
when we would fall for someone who wouldn’t be as
interested as we
are because his attention is focused on someone
else.

There are many times when we love but don’t get
loved
in return.
There are times when the sign ahead says stop
but we
still stubbornly
head on. We would say our love is unconditional,
but
if it really is,
then we should never feel bad. But why do we get
frustrated when love
turns sour? Because we still subconsciously seek
acceptance and
assurance from the people we care about.

Being in love can be the most wonderful thing we
could
experience
but if the feeling begins to consume our whole
beings,
then we have
to stop and let our minds and not our hearts dictate
our actions.
Only when we learn to accept our fate and
understand
the meaning of
our failures we can truly go on with life without
having to look back
and cry over the things that could have been but will
never be……

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